”推し”との共通点を探りたくなる心理は分かる。
どうしてこんなに惹かれるのか、もしかしたら前世で交わってたんじゃないか、同じものから影響を受けてるんじゃないか、と考えたくなるものだ。
そして憧れの存在となってしまえば、少しでも近くに感じたいと、同じものを身に付けたり、聖地巡礼したり、普段のディティールも寄せていったりする。
同じものを好きだったりすれば、間違いなくうれしい。
だからと言って、同化するわけじゃない。
さらに、自分の趣味を”推し”に押し付けてどうなる？
自分と同じような人を好きになるわけじゃなくって、自分にはないステキなところに惹かれてるんじゃなかった？
自己愛は大切だ、誰にとっても。
別にあなたが変わらなくってもいいけど、”推し”を変えようと考えるのは違うんじゃないかなぁ。
それより、「GOOD TEA TIME」だよ！
I understand the psychology of wanting to find common ground with your "oshi."
It's tempting to wonder why I'm so attracted to him; maybe I crossed paths in a past life, or were influenced by the same things.
And once he becomes someone I admire, I'll want to feel closer to him, so I'll wear the same things, go on pilgrimages to his sacred places, and even try to match the daily details.
It's undoubtedly nice if my "oshi" likes the same things as me.
But that doesn't mean we'll become one with him.
Furthermore, what would happen if we forced our own hobbies on our "oshi"?
We're not liking someone like us, we're just attracted to his wonderful qualities that we don't have, right?
Self-love is important, for everyone.
You don't have to change yourselves, but I don't think it's smart to try to change our "oshi."
Anyway, it's time for some GOOD TEA TIME!
