藤井風さんは常にネガティブな言葉を避ける工夫をしている。
話し相手やその話題について知らないとき、「ワシの勉強不足で聞いたことない～」「もっと勉強します～」と相手を傷つけない言葉を選ぶ。
嫌いなものも、「苦手で～」「経験不足で～したことないですけど」と言う。
自分の価値観を押し付けたり、相手を非難したりしない。
それは、”人を区別しない、決して傷つけない”という姿勢が身についているからだ。
自分はベジタリアンだけど、人に「肉は食べるな」とは決して言わない。
「野菜を食べよう」、「大豆ミートは肉みたいに旨いんやで」と言う。
もし、ウチの家業が畜産家だったり肉屋だったり焼き鳥屋だったりしても、風さんを恨んだりはしないと思う。
我が家のトイレのカレンダー、昨日の一言、「言葉は心の使い」。
Fujii Kaze always makes an effort to avoid negative language.
When he is unfamiliar with the person he is talking to or the topic, he chooses words that will not hurt the other person, such as, "I've never heard of that before because I haven't studied it enough," or "I'll study it more."
When it comes to things he dislikes, he says, "I'm not good at it," or "I've never tried it because I don't have enough experience."
He does not impose his own values on others or criticize others.
That's because he has an attitude of "not discriminating between people and never hurting them."
He is a vegetarian, but he would never tell people not to eat meat.
He would say, "Eat your vegetables," or "Soy meat is just as delicious as meat."
Even if my family business was livestock farming, butchering, or running a yakitori restaurant, I don't think I would resent KAZE.
The calendar in my bathroom yesterday had a saying: "Words are the workings of our minds."
